It’s not your phenotype, it’s you
Phenotype is a composite of an organism’s observable characteristics or traits;
a phenotype results from the expression of an organism’s genes as well as the influence of environmental factors and the interactions between the two
Where is the limit between somebodies phenotype and the “self-defined” part of his/hers personality?
To what point do we turn a blind eye to somebodies mistakes because “they were raised that way” ?
To what extent are we shaped by our nurture and culture? Isn’t there a time in every-ones life where you start questioning the information you have been served by your closest influences ? Isn’t there a learning curve in life which teaches you to adjust the previously learned behavior to the given situation and the needs/expectations of your new surroundings?
In my personal experience a lot of people keep on blindingly following the rules, norms, behavior patterns and beliefs they were served. (Ironically they are more certain in them then the others are in the beliefs they built by themselves.)
So how do you even put a limit of tolerance when there is nothing to put it on?
Personally I am done with excusing grown ass people with “they are raised that way” or “it’s just their culture” because people are more than their background, and they are able to grow and adjust.
I don’t care from what culture you come from, respecting others, and acting accordingly in any given situation is just common sense.
There is no excuse in your past for being an asshole.
If you don’t believe me, look it up.