“Is it possible to fall in love without it ending in blood,sperm, and tears?”*
Probably not.
Falling in love is scary exactly because we now it will eventually end up with pain.
But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t do it just because we are aware of that fact.
It’s like boxing in a way. You know that you will get a few punches but the fear of that doesn’t stop you from getting into the ring. Because the feeling you get from fighting overcomes the fear of getting hurt.
When the match is over and you come out as the winner, you forget that there is blood dripping down your forehead and that you have a huge black eye that is gonna require half a kilo of make up to cover. And when you heel you always look at your scars and think of that moment and smile.
Because then you were on top of the world, and the scars take you back to that feeling and you are able to feel it again.
It’s similar in relationships, it’s just that in that case the wounds not visible by the naked eye.
And when they heal you can go back in time and smile because then you won’t be sad it has finished.
You will be happy that it happened.
And the whole point of why to fall in love is that smile. Smile you get when someone says his/her name. Smile you get when he/she sends you a message. Smile with witch you wake up knowing you will see his/her face first thing when you open your eyes.
That smile is probably the most beautiful thing you can see on another human being.
It’s not our ability to think, or our ability to invent and research that make us worth the space which we occupy on this Earth.
It’s our ability to fall in love. To feel this amazing bundle of whatever it is towards another human being and to let go to that completely. Falling in love is what keeps us going as a species. It’s what makes us create the world around us and all the beautiful things in it.
And if it was safe it would’t be called falling.
If it was safe it wouldn’t be so beautiful.
If it was safe it wouldn’t be worth it.
So let yourself fall and enjoy the way down.
And when you get hurt just smile,
because you were one of the lucky ones.
You were in love.
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